I have learned to negotiate and express myself better. I would rather lose something than hold all the grudges inside me and then complain about it nonstop.
Negativity is airborne. It is contagious. If I don’t want to always hang out with a person who does nothing but complain about every single thing, I also don’t want to be that person who loudly claims that I don’t have control over my life because it is not true.
This is my only life and to say that I don’t have the power to choose what makes me feel good, would be my greatest failure.
… Read More How I Finally Stopped Complaining
To make mistakes is not my choice. To hit rock bottom was not my wish but to stay in the dark without deciding to end it would be my fault.
To change is my choice and it is now a part of my story. … Read More 11 Things that Changed Since I Found Myself
I woke up on a Monday morning with a question from one of the readers.
How I found my dream?
There’s no way that I can justify the answers in just few lines because it took me three long, agonizing years to find it and stick to it.
I have seen exercises that promise to find it in just five minutes but it doesn’t apply for me.
It would have helped if during the time that I was so unclear on what I want to do with my life if I had enough words to express what I was going through only I stumbled into it a bit later. … Read More How to Find your Passion and Live the Life of your Dreams
I have always been far from my country’s epitome of beauty so I made sure that I’d be funny and brave enough to be the one to make fun of myself. That way, nobody will offend me if they decide to humiliate me by highlighting my flaws.… Read More 10 Toxic Things I Removed from my Life to Finally be Happy
I am a witness to how poor we treat our pets and it’s normal for us to hit them if they don’t behave in such way we want them to. As if they have a mind capable of thinking and the ability to express what they want and protect themselves.… Read More Veganism: The Journey that Holds my Holistic Health Together
In my culture, they ask you first what you do for a living or what your family has. This is very important because this determines the amount of respect you will be given. If you belong under the blue collar worker category, don’t expect so much.… Read More What Having Less Money Taught Me
I didn’t know that it is so hard to be true to myself and that I had to fight so hard for it. … Read More The Exact 10 Steps I Took to Kill the Old Me: A Self-Reinvention
I was 29 when my great depression hit me.
I thought I had all what a girl could ever wish for.
I was working as an expat in Malaysia and could do whatever I wanted to do, buy whatever I wanted to have and travel wherever I wanted to.
Few months before I went MIA from a job that I thought I wanted, I was in Bali.
It was what everyone has been raving about so of course, I must see it. It will look good on my Instagram and Facebook. … Read More 10 Serious Signs You are on the Wrong Path in Life
I went from this to this to this. All in just a span of seven years and in the last three years of this transformation were more of like yo-yo dieting and emotional roller coaster ride of binge eating. I was in the rock bottom and I was too physically, emotionally, spiritually and mentally weak… Read More How Losing Weight Made me a Horrible Person
All of my unusual and poor life decisions lead me to the path that I have always wanted to take. These poor decisions put me to situations that tested my resilience, patience and mental strength. These taught me to be strong beyond what I can measure. … Read More 8 Life Lessons Hitting Rock Bottom has Taught Me